The Hermit is usually not a very positive card in a relationship, nonetheless, it doesn’t mean that its advice must be ignored. In a relationship that is starting, this card suggests that your romantic interest is not emotionally available. When it shows up in a complicated relationship, it signifies that either the relationship is not a priority for your romantic interest. In committed relationships, it suggests that it is a good moment to take some time for yourself and work on your individual well-being. In break-up situations, it indicates that the separation is final.