When a connection begins, The Tower can be an indicator that this is a relationship that will shatter your structures and may make you confront parts of yourself that need attention. In complicated relationships, progress is possible, but againt, it will require tearing down the current structure of the relationship in order to rebuild something stronger. When it comes to committed relationships, The Tower may indicate hard times coming, that can be overcome if you work as a team. In break-ups, The Tower speaks of a painful separation that will lead to a better future.